I drive a cab for a living, and the other day I drove a woman to the liquor store and back home again. The conversation we had made perfect sense through the RedPill lense, and none at all through the Blue Pill lens.

She started off flirting a little with the guy at the liquor store. I mention something about the Broncos' preseason game, and she immediately tries a generic put down: "You guys and your crazy football". I say, gesturing to her boobs, "...Says the woman wearing the Broncos' jersey." BP: don't point out that she has boobs! She'll think you're a creep! RP: It isn't a big deal, and since I'm confident when doing it, it's cool When she gets back in the cab, she asks if she is too flirty. I tell her that she's just seeking attention and validation. She doesn't get defensive, and instead says, "Isn't that what everyone wants?" I say "Well, every woman." RP agrees, BP would think this is outrageous

She proceeds to tell me that her first husband was really abusive. Once he tried to choke her to get her to shut up, so she called the cops on him and divorced him. But her current husband is also abusive. She asked why she was attracted to men like that. I said, "The abusiveness isn't the reason you're attracted to them". She didn't really let me finish, because she was more interested in talking than listening. My finish would have been, "It's the dominant behavior you're attracted to, the abusiveness (if it is that) is just a side effect." RP plus, BP minus Though choking someone out to get them to stop talking would classify as breaking frame.

"Well, one of my husband's best friends hit on me really hard when my husband left. I just didn't know what to do. If my husband found out, he'd KILL the guy!" RP I think she likes this a lot. It's like she has a really powerful gun that she can point at anything she likes to blow it up, and the great part is she doesn't have to take any responsibility for her actions! That, plus her current husband has 60 acres of land in the mountains just outside of Denver.

Old BP me: maybe I've got a chance with this woman, maybe I should give her the cab ride for free. New RP me: This woman is crazy as fuck, and her flirting is just for her validation, and has nothing to do with me.