For those of you who took the redpill before marriage, under what conditions did you get married?

gisking · 2017-10-01T14:41:09+00:00

I'm getting married and here is what made my decision:

Did I have factors in my frame that made marriage desirable?

I'm sick of plates and constantly training them. I want a woman who knows what I like and is willing to give it.
I want a family and children.
marriage provides social benefit in my community
it is in keeping with my traditionalist values

Will she do one of the things that will cause me to leave her?

no dead bedroom. Unless medical reasons. She needs to know this is a priority and I need to believe her desire for a happy husband is internal to her values. (Traditional women are the best!)
no nagbots. I don't think she will, but I think I'll have to keep my leadership on point since she's an achiever.

Does she have soft skills that compliment mine and will make my house more powerful?

now, I'm a likable chap, but she manages wide social circles like I never could. Together, she will help my career and our house.
I do pretty good keeping a clean and organized ship, but she has much more experience and is happy to free me from the areas I'm just OK at so I can focus on the more detailed parts that I'm great at.
I look good next to her and she looks good hanging on me.
she has interesting hobbies and is happy to pursue those and share their benefit.
she is logical enough that it's worthwhile to shoot ideas past her. Sometimes she surprises me with something clever I wasn't considering.
her emotions are pretty easy to manage. While they're definitely more intense, she's a woman so I don't think I can avoid the occasional irrational emotions.

red-sfpplus · 2017-10-01T14:32:43+00:00

There were no conditions put on anyone other than myself. I wanted a family. I wanted kids. I knew the risks and what needed to be done to mitigate those risks.

470_2_700_nm · 2017-10-01T14:55:53+00:00

Just don't get married. Make her long term and all and apply MRP principals but you have zero to gain from it, only to loose.

BTW post your questions in askMRP.

This is not the place.

bogeyd6 · 2017-10-01T14:57:04+00:00

Post is removed because you failed to adhere to th writing guidelines. You may post this at /r/askmrp if you prefer.

Title	For those of you who took the redpill before marriage, under what conditions did you get married?
Author	gisking
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	October 1, 2017 1:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/73lqlx/for_those_of_you_who_took_the_redpill_before/
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