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I'm a chump. I give in too easily. I roll over. And more.

AChumpRising

February 17, 2016

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Title	I'm a chump. I give in too easily. I roll over. And more.
Author	AChumpRising
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	February 17, 2016 3:29 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/466atg/im_a_chump_i_give_in_too_easily_i_roll_over_and/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/im-a-chump-i-give-in-too-easily-i-roll-over-and.200330 https://theredarchive.com/post/200330

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[–]FearDearg2015Married- MRP MODERATOR0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]AChumpRising[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]FearDearg2015Married- MRP MODERATOR0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That I'm trying to boost my confidence and body and thus increase SMV.

There's some RP truth in there. But remember that you are dealing with a human being. There will be layers of personality, ego, rationalisation etc, aka the hamster, which will try to simplify what's going on. Both in your mind and in her mind.

I want to do something awesome with my life, but I don't know what.

That's hamstering. You are making excuses for why you are not awesome. Who says you need to know what it's gonna be? For example, I spent a number of years at university doing research towards a PhD. Nobody had any idea what the final document would look like, or even what the title would be, until AFTER I had presented my work to my examiners. Well, obviously we all had some sort of common understanding of the intent of the work and so on, but I can tell you 100% that the work evolved over time and became awesome because of the hard work that I put into it. It's about setting goals for yourself, achievable goals, that are specific enough to make measurable progress on, but are flexible enough to allow you to adapt to the circumstances. For example, if you set a goal to be in Singapore on new years Eve this year, that's an example of a manageable goal. If you instead were to overcomplicate the goal with a lot of unnecessary details, or things outside your control, it will be much harder to manage your progress.

[–]AChumpRising[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]FearDearg2015Married- MRP MODERATOR0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]AChumpRising[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link