The Red Pill is about understanding sexual strategy. Which for men, is sleeping with as many women as possible to spread their genes, while for women it’s about sleeping with a guy with the best genes (alpha) while having good provider(beta) to raise the child. What defines good genes? Well jaw line, blue eyes, big forearms, broad shoulders, symmetrical face, tall.

Now, when we talk about becoming more alpha, we mean adopting the mindset of a man that has top tier genetics. Throughout time, women have learned to associate these behaviors with a guy that does have better genetics. However, at the end of the day these tactics can only do so much. If you are a 4 foot tall, bald, fat, Indian, you can go around with your chest puffed up as much as you want, it ain’t gonna do shit. No woman will be like wow, Raj negged me, he must have such high value, I should totally sleep with him!

Sure there are things you can do to compensate like having a big career, being popular, having good game. For example, one of the most common things people say is that if you can make a girl laugh you are in. I don’t disagree with that, however my good looking friend Eric can yell Penis, and girls can’t contain their giggling. While me, I actually have to be funny, and even then it’s not the same level as Eric.

The point of this post is not for you to sit here and think damn, shits over for me. It’s to understand your position in the sexual market place. Not every guy will be able to pull hot girls from a bar. You can’t raise your genetics, however you can raise your SMV.

For me even after putting on muscle, having good fashion, I know I cap out about an 8. Casual encounters I can keep a fwb that’s like a 5. However, if I really want a cute girl, I have to work for a relationship. Girls(usually black girls) that throw themselves at me, I don’t really want, so I stick mainly to Ltrs.

Yeah it’s a bitter pill to swallow, but it will make you a stronger man if you accept it. This doesn’t mean it’s time to MGTOW or marry a postwall hag. There are other girls besides the blonde QT3.14. Do things that make yourself more attractive. Expand your social horizons, one of the biggest limiting factors for guys is not how attractive they are but how much they put themselves out there.