Update: Wife WAS Scared of Me

Redneck001 · 2015-09-15T16:32:10+00:00

Anyway, I'm talking too much.

That's the TL;DR.

Are you the guy who posted yesterday that your wife didn't seek validation from you and just disappeared often? That you were overweight and working on it? And today you're a scary motherfucker that's too alpha?

Do you see how you're all over the place? You're changing user names, you're too alpha, you're a warrior. Yesterday, you were insecure. This is the type of leadership your wife sees. Of course she's confused about your behavior.

We say STFU for good reason. Work on yourself, become a high value dude. Read the requisite materials.

We don't need daily updates.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-09-15T19:10:56+00:00

When we say don't talk, we usually mean talk less, not don't ever talk. Binary thinking.

When we say be stoic, we usually mean don't show undue emotions, not be a stone cold motherfucker all the way through the funeral.

When we say be the rock, we usually mean be the Oak- strong AND protecting.

Be aware, incongruency is the root of most Shit Tests so I can't believe you are not being shit tested every minute.

Finally:

She told me point blank last night.

Blah Blah Blah. Watch what they do, not what they say. What she calls "fear" we call "dread" (in very measured amounts) so don't get dragged into her frame.

If she is ACTING scared of you, that is time to back off and/or provide warm reassurance. If she is SAYING she is scared of you, that is the time for Amused Mastery and teasing.

Remember, you are a predator. Study the behavior of your prey. Don't listen to her tinsel truths. watch what she does.

For example, a woman who has "the dread" often becomes hypersexual- assuming the fears are reduced to a nagging back-of-the-mind concern and is not debilitating terror, although that also works.

[deleted] · 2015-09-15T16:16:55+00:00

When you try to restrain your masculinity it finds destructive ways to come out.

Instead of handling situations like a Man, and leading, lifting, and Owning your shit like a Man you bottle that shit up. that's where anxiety, discontentment with life, self loathing, and explosions of rage and frustrations come from.

You're not living in accordance with Nature.

Take back your masculinity. Your wife may see you as rough/tough compared to the beta behaviors she is used to in other 'men' she sees, but who gives a fuck. As long as you're taking care of her and your kid then there is no issue and she will see that.

The change may lead to initial pushback, so be it. Your success lands squarely on your shoulders. All of your failures up to this point are on you. all of the success that you can attain, is up to you. She'll eventually call you out on weak behavior and show off your Masculine actions to her friends and family IF you do it right.

[deleted] · 2015-09-16T11:13:51+00:00

Apparently someone posted this in blue pill sub.

Title	Update: Wife WAS Scared of Me
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	September 15, 2015 4:09 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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