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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I used to have a strong need to be validated by others and my language reflected my neediness. I would ramble endlessly and always use terms that looked for approval, like, "I think I might go out now." Almost everything was said as though it were subject to approval or change.
Since discovering Red Pill philosophies over four years ago, I've noticed that one thing about me that's changed has been my language. I've become much stronger in how I express myself. I'm not a jerk who doesn't listen. But I am more decisive and clear about the direction I intend to take.
I posted some thoughts on this in the main sub and decided to link it here as well, because I've applied it in my marriage and it's made my wife respect my decisions more.
[–]strategos_autokratorMan, Married, Mod0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I recommend in future posts, instead of deep linking to TRP, you write something in the post itself discussing how it applies to Married Sexual Strategy. Everyone here should be reading TRP anyway.
I see you sort of did it here, but it is better if you do it in the post itself, refering directly to what you are linking for discussion. Add value to the post by discussing it in the post itself. Otherwise, in the future, it will considered low quality.
I'm not going to delete it for now, as I need to update guidelines ot make this clear, but wanted to give you a friendly warning.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No problem. Point taken.
[–]strategos_autokratorMan, Married, Mod1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for understanding. The sub is growing fast and we are trying to use this to increase the quality, so we are slowly becoming more demanding.
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