I'm not sure which side of the equation I fit on.

I feel like I've always leaned on the alpha side. I found the redpill about 5 years ago. I've tried some of the techniques off and on, but I've never been sure if I needed to add alpha, or add beta. I’m not even sure I need to worry about anything. But now that I’m very redpill aware, I can’t help but wonder if there is room for improvement. Everywhere I look, every relationship I see I analyze from a redpill perspective. A little background;

I'm 35 and have been married for 11 years. Not much to complain about in that time. Sex has always been regular, 3-4 times a week on the low end, and 5-6 on the high end like this last week. My wife is very attractive and has always drawn attention from my friends and she can still drive me crazy. She has gained some weight over the years. We have one daughter together who is 11. I would say overall we have a happy marriage. My wife does not get along with my parents and that can be a strain.

I rode motorcycles when I met my wife and I know she is very attracted to that. I still race motocross competitively and have won some local races in the last year. I do trackdays on my sportbike a couple times a year and always ride in the expert group. I'm am very fit, I can race a strait 2.5 hour desert race with deep sand whoops and place well. My wife never gives me shit about how many motorcycles (3) I have, or how much I spend to maintain them. I'm 6ft and about 170 pounds, but I've always looked very very very young. I brew my own beer, can fix the cars and almost anything around the house. I'm a manager at my decent paying job.

The only place I see room for improvement is not the quantity of sex, but at times I would like to try more. My wife will give me head a couple times a week, but rarely to finish. She also does not like playing with toys, or me going down on her. She says she’s too sensitive and can only take it for a short while. I really don’t want to sound like I’m complaining too much, but I’ve always found that you can make good things even better.