Thanks guys.

Just randomly asked an 8/10 i spoke to once 3 years ago for a drink on facebook. I said I think you went to my college, come for a drink sometime with me."

She danced around, and only said yeah i think you were the year below me.

Now this is the turning point. Old me would have been like "she didn;t respond waa she hates me"

Instead i reply "That didn't answer my question did it."

Now she says she would like to meet up

thanks guys