Ever since reading everything on here I have been trying a few things out with my SO of 6 years. I realised our relationship had gotten to the point where we were almost housemates. I started lifting again, quit smoking weed, getting up earlier and just being more aware of my actions; I was being somewhat beta without any alpha traits. I spoke with my SO about this and she has noticed a remarkable difference. I'm more decisive, dominant, and feel more manly; my confidence has shot through the roof. She's reciprocated by being more feminine and submissive which is a massive turn on. The sex has increased in quality and quantity too. Tomorrow I start boxing training. It's for a charity white collar fight with all proceeds going to a charity of my choosing. This put a huge smile on her face which surprised me, well she is going to see me fight, in a ring in front of hundreds of people. I've never boxed before, and in 10 weeks I step into the ring. I'm scared but that's why I signed up. I want to get out of my comfort zone, I want to face fears and I want to win! This sub gets a lot of hate which is completely unwarranted. This philosophy has changed my whole outlook on life. Still taking it as it comes, but I'm growing. Big up to all the red pillers. Here's to the future!