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How do I refrain from becoming emotionally invested in an exclusive relationship?

onpuzzle · 2019-01-25T15:21:51+00:00

Been seeing this girl for a while, things are going great. We are in an exclusive relationship and I am happy with that, I'm getting what I want from...

onpuzzle

January 25, 2019

5 upvotes

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Title	How do I refrain from becoming emotionally invested in an exclusive relationship?
Author	onpuzzle
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	January 25, 2019 3:21 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/ajq1dx/how_do_i_refrain_from_becoming_emotionally/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-do-i-refrain-from-becoming-emotionally.203404 https://theredarchive.com/post/203404

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[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]onpuzzle[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ok. I'm going to give you a huge gift. This is a future post of mine but I'll let you have the preview. Here's how every relationship you'll ever have will transpire

You like each other
One party realizes they are more invested than the other
Invested party makes demand of less invested party (usually commitment or increased time spent together)
Less invested party either

4a. Accepts demand of invested party and resentment is created OR

4B. rejects demand of invested party

Now return to step two. These roles can flip flop. Armed with this script, you can now tell that you always want to be the less invested party. This is simple, always keep two in the kitty. While you date this girl, either be fuckjng other women steadily or be confident you have two backups who are very likely to get on board the moment you call. This is the recipe for moral detachment. You're welcome

[–]onpuzzle[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AllBizzedUp1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link