For three weeks straight now we've met at the bar every weekend when we've both been drunk, and we ended up fucking. I really don't know what i want from this girl, but i would open to just be casual and FWB if that's all it is, but who knows. Thing is, we've only met and fucked when we have both been drunk, and i want to try her out sober, but at the same time i don't want to give the vibe that i'm being too serious. I have asked her before if she wants to come over for a movie and some food, like today for example, but so far she has been busy with work. She is genuinly busy with work though, as she has evening shift today from 3-11, so she isn't making it up. She said it "sounded wonderful, but i have work", when i asked her. Since she works shifts, is it okay to ask her to let me know when she finds a time to meet, or does that make me look weak? From earlier experience it often ends up with the girl not wanting to initiate.

I mean it does seem like she's into me, on friday this weekend i was out drinking, and she came out with her friends for a "short trip since she had work early next morning". We madeout a bit, but she had to leave. After a while she texted me what i was doing and i asked if she wanted company and she did. So i went to her place, we fucked and she went to work next morning leaving me in her bed. I don't rate myself highly in bed when i'm drunk, and i have a feeling she isn't exactly impressed with me sexually, so i really wanna smash sober, but at this point i kinda feel like i look desperate for asking her too many times and her "declining" it because of work.