My girlfriend a few years ago made out with a guy from her work. I always thought this happened after she went dancing with a large group from work. Now I don't care in the slightest if a girl cheats or whatever it just doesn't bother me personally. And this girl is great and she has forgiven me a couple times for cheating. I just don't care about that stuff. After a few years of dating our relationship has become very serious and I no longer have any urges to be unfaithful and I do trust that now she is very committed as well. But trickle truth is interesting. I brought up that night today. I have a good memory but she does not. She doesn't remember what happened it was so long ago. This time in turns out though that the plan was to stay up all night at his place after dancing. She tells me thay did stay up all night and made out he felt her up but they didn't have sex. I kinda believe her. But honestly I dont care. I tell her this, that she can just tell me the truth, I have made mistakes and you forgave them so its all good were serious now. She says that it is the truth. Now who knows what really happen and what does it matter, I love this girl she loves me. The problem is after catching her in this lie (that she actually spent the night at his place instead of making out in a car) she is pissed at me what the fuck. When I ask her why would she lie, it seems like they slept together, she turned it around on me reminding me of my indiscretions..and even more saying she doesnt believe me and that there is more that I am hiding. What the actual fuck.... Women...you just can never know. The way I see it you can never know all of them will probably cheat at somepoint so just stop caring if you want her.