I started hooking up with my ex a couple months ago. We were going fine for like a month with just run of the mill shit tests and what not. Then she went out of town for two weeks after saying we should hang when she gets back. I waited for her to text me when she got back and she did. I responded the next day and then she ghosted me for over a week.

Maybe a week and a half later she texted seeing what I was doing later that day, but I wasn't about to text her back immediately after getting ghosted for over a week so I waited. Kinda forgot about it and about a week later she texts me saying that she hasn't heard from me and would appreciate some communication. This pisses me off so I called her on her shit and we basically started fighting over text which I know I shouldn't have done but I was pretty pissed she would have the audacity to say something like that to me and it felt good to tell her off.

Anyway she got so crazy I just stopped responding again. A day or two later she just sends me "pussy". I didn't do anything and then an hour later she sent another text saying haha that was my friend who sent that I didn't mean it and sorry. I haven't responded in like a week.

Question is should I just never talk to her again? I kind of want to keep fucking but I feel like she needs to apologize to me or else I am basically communicating she can treat me like shit and I will still come around. Her first sorry was bs because she was definitely aware that the "pussy" message was being sent to me, even if it was her friend who actually sent it. If I ghost for a week or two and then text her after being disrespected I feel like that is immediately low value and desperate. So do I just wait for her to reach out again and soft or hard next until then or is there anyway I can keep smashing while maintaining self respect?