I've heard about women leaving wealthy men that have lost their money and leaving masculine men that have cried while grieving a lost loved one. Ive also heard of formerly fat men getting attention from women after losing weight.

Recently i had my cousin (who has had huge success with women his whole life) tell me about how girls that were ignoring him hit him up after he got a good haircut and posted it on social media. My formerly scrawny brother also told me he saw a girl he hadn't seen in 8 months (all of which he spent lifting) and she was eyeing him the entire time he was in the room.

Is attraction really this volatile? Could being seen with a bad haircut or a goofy outfit be enough to nuke a woman's attraction for you?

I guess if it can be so easily lost it can also be easily gained. We just need to stay on top of our game at all times.

Edit: i know i fucked up the title.