I know TRP says take your woman on emotional rollercoasters cause it’s better than her being bored and naturally I do that at times with her (sometimes without realizing it) and she’ll go from mad to anxious to sad back to happy when we solve the problem. I know TRP also says to never argue with your woman etc but isn’t that an emotional rollercoaster in itself? For example, last night my LTR and I were sexting a bit and I offered to come get her for a quick fuck (we just fucked a couple days ago and I see her 1-2x a week) but she said she felt bloated and ate a lot. This is the first time she’s denied me picking her up since I’ve met her it feels like and I felt a little disrespected even though in hindsight it’s not as serious as I made it out to be. I brought it up with her today and let her know, we talked it out (at times today she would go from upset with me to laughing to sad while we talked about it and some other things) and we ended up resolving the issue and her being happy to end our talk. I never get into “shouting matches” or any of that but I’ve noticed recently we’ve been having more discussions about our relationship recently. I always try my best to stay calm during her outbursts and not get upset, always stay in the same mood. Am I still having an “argument” with her by continuing to talk to her about it? The times it has happened (when it’s me starting it) is when something small irks me, I let her know, and her reaction ends up with me listening, being calm and giving my side of the story and if she makes sense I’ll let her know. We have lots of sex, she initiates BJ’s, and she’s told me I’m very hard to read and likes how calm I remain. Just wondering what you guys think and if I’m fucking up by doing this! Cheers