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Going on dates

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March 31, 2017

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Title	Going on dates
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	March 31, 2017 8:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/62noqt/going_on_dates/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/going-on-dates.216158 https://theredarchive.com/post/216158

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[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]Throwitiaway points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

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[–]Pitchfork51 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Already trying to qualify yourself to them before you've even met them, here.

just anxious of being too akward/cringy

Who the fuck cares?

Rule #1 of TRP. Learn when to shut the fuck up.

If you've got nothing on your mind, then let her fill in the silence and entertain you with chitchat. You're not the entertainment, she is. If she won't, then she's just another brainless chick who's barely worth your notice.

and making my self esteem even worse

Who the fuck cares?

That's the way quitters like women and betas think, always mentally masturbating about failure and awkwardness, and thinking it all revolves around them personally.

Are you a quitter?

Leave that kind of immature weak bullshit to your date. You're in charge of the evening. Your only job is to have fun, do what you want to do, and get her to qualify herself to your expectations. Let her worry about rejection and being inept, not the man in charge. Women always do. It's up to her to prove she's worth your valuable time and attention, not the other way around.

[–]Pitchfork51 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Pitchfork511 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link