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[–]dumstick2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
17 highschool. Used to be you too. Just listen to the advice around here. Start doing a fighting sport. None of that Japanese shit either. Western boxing. BJJ, MMA all good. That's what pushed my from a virgin at 15 to n=4 at 17. Currently in an LTR, life is good. There's hope.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lots of hormones. Just put the nasty shit out of your head
[–]zidanio10 points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Your submissiveness is normal, you can fix it, you're not gay.
Stop watching porn, start imagining being the man getting some when you masturbate, no death grip.
[–]MaximAU0 points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Normal in teens, or ones with weird porn habits?
I want actual sex, but at my age it's not happening quickly without a prostitute/girlfriend
Porn fucks with your head, that's what's normal in todays world. Stop watching it!
Don't worry about your age, start changing things NOW - don't look backwards, don't expect overnight results.
I'd recommend Monk Mode but with one of your main goals being to improve your social skills and enjoying your life more with and without other people.
Also, read the sidebar! Don't hate women and society for what they are, be grateful that you're aware and play the system to your advantage.
[–]tatsumakiii1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Read how to win friends and influence people it will help you build your social circles worked wonders for me, but be very careful with the book when applying any of its principles with women because it has a lot of beta in it. Read TRP sidebar, read all of it. You might be young for the gym but you can still work out, train, eat staple food, drop soda sweets etc and also dress your best. One more thing which might not be supported but im certain it will help you in every aspect is to get any fuckable LTR asap.
[–]Sinth420 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
STOP WATCHING PORN! Everyone says it's healthy but it really is not. Check out yourbrainonporn.com. It's a great website. Give porn a break and start doing something that fulfills you rather than just wastes time. And btw trying NoFap while still watching porn is like hanging out with your crack addict friends while you're trying to stay sober. In the beginning you'll obviously feel like shit cause you're used to quick cheap dopamine rushing into your brain from porn but you'll get over it. If you don't, seek help.
Good luck!
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