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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
You're a perfect example of a woman who'd rather share an alpha than be with a beta. It's also a bit of a pet peeve of mine to hear about a woman who thinks that she's not like the others. Every woman thinks that she's special and unique and not like other women.
Personally, I think you should just stop writing any more on here. No need for further chapters, you've said enough.
[–]askmrcia0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
He is what I used to call a recovering sex addict and sociopath, which I now understand to be just a maturing Alpha
Yup I'm glad I'm not the only one that thought like you and what I have quoted tells me a lot.
She's exactly what we preach on here. Wants to stay with him despite his negatives. Got pregnant at 16 (says a lot) and married young.
Then she calls herself red-pill. The last paragraph says enough.
[–]RedPillMom[S] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Pregnant at 16 used to be normal. I'm a traditionalist. My God, I figured out of all people you guys would understand that. Women are suppose to look for a strong mate, have babies young with her one strong provider, play her role and keep him around. That is exactly what I did, and I'm catching hell for it here?
[–]askmrcia0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yea used to be just like you said. Completely different time now.
16 year Olds can't get jobs outside of shitty fast food and other service industry jobs.
What 16 year old is mature enough to where they can provide for their kids?
16 year olds are still living with their parents.
Its not alpha at all to have a kid at that age. You're catching hell because you call yourself a red pill woman, but you contradict yourself because you're doing things that the women we bitch about on here do. You had a kid as teen, you stuck with a dude who clearly had issues (your words) yet you claim the guy is alpha.
[–]RedPillMom[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
He was 20 by the time the baby was bornin 2005 and could provide for me and our baby, I remember he was making $800 a week, we didn't live great, but we didn't need to.. I moved out of my parents house, finished high school and stayed home raising our child (soon children) while he worked his ass off to be where he is now: self-employed and making six digits. In fact, I believe being married gave him an advantage in the work force. Was it the smartest thing to do at the time, no, do I regret it? Not at all. It was a way out of my own shitty situation at home, and I was his out as well. He didn't want a child, something in me, even at that young age knew he would be a good provider. I had more correct gut instincts at 16 then women of 30 have, I wasn't infected with feminism, not then and not now. So I pretty much trapped him, but then I did my part and made up for it. He tells me all the time that he is grateful we did it young because if we wouldn't have he probably never would have had kids. If it weren't for me, he'd be childless and single forever, and wouldn't even mind. He'd still fuck sluts on the regular, but that just makes him have less respect for women and would ensure his lifetime single status.
It's only different now because society says it is. It doesn't have to be, we are proof of that.
[–]askmrcia0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
. It doesn't have to be, we are proof of that
No you're wrong, because most teen moms are on welfare. If you're story is true then you were just lucky and an outlier.
Was it the smartest thing to do at the time, no,
Exactly my point.
Also what is your point in all of this? Do you want advice or are you just sharing your story?
[–]RedPillMom[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Definitely the outlier but luck had nothing to do with it. Hard work, sacrifice, resisting the pressures of society, being loyal (on my part). I could have spent my 20's out with my peers sluting it up, instead I choose to stay home, nurse my babies, and be the best mother I could be. You call that luck? He worked 2 jobs and 80 hrs a week some weeks to provide for us and advance his career. I understand a lot of men do this, I know we don't get a gold star for behaving in a responsible way, but luck does not describe where we are and how we got here.
Yes, I did in fact have a few specific questions. I wanted to give some background and gauge the response first. See if this is even the correct place to be asking them. It seems it is not, and that is okay. Blue-pilled women cannot fathom my situation. They have the idea that I'm in some type of situation boarding abusive (I've never even bothered explaining to blue-pilled men). I thought people here might have more of an understanding because you understand the nature of men and women. I thought maybe you (not you personally) would understand my position and be able to compare it rationally to the alternative.
I am not a modern women, not a feminist, I do not fit into modern society nor do I participate in it in any real or meaningful way. That is why I am different, that is why my marriage is different, and that is why I came here. My situation resembles that of a woman born in 1887 more than 1987, but I'm still judged by today's standards by my friends, family, and peers, and that is reasonable. But even to people here I must be some kind of white trash trailer park girl if I got pregnant at 16 right? It says a lot, right? I didn't go to college and stayed with him despite his negatives so I must be some kind of fool, right? All women are the same, right? So if I'm not some slut on the constant lookout for a guy with a higher SMV, then I must be a desperate woman trying to force my alpha to love me back, and you all are so sure that he never will. Because those are the only scenarios you can possibly imagine.
I'm done. I shouldn't have bothered. I only did because we took ecstasy this weekend and I came to some conclusions that relate to what this movement is about. We've been taking it once a month for about a year now. It has helped, mostly him, immensely. He experiences the empathy that he otherwise does not possess. There is much more to my story, obviously, but this isn't the right place to tell it.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stories on here are usually pretty brief. Your story... it goes on forever. There are literal chapters to it. No one is on here to read a novel. Now that you've articulated your perspective a little more it's understandable to see why you're frustrated in your relationship. Yes, in a time long ago, people got married young to their best option and stuck it out until the end without divorce. Those days are over, that was the system men designed and it's basically dead. There's not much you can do, but try not to romanticize the old era too much, people have always cheated. Brothels and loose women have always been around, birth control just made it mainstream. You picked a partner with high smv who is probably peaking in terms of his sexual options. Since monogamy isn't natural humans had to craft the culture of marriage to enforce it but in today's era of sexual anarchy you get the results one would expect.
[–]RedPillMom[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
It's understandable that you would think that because you've never met a woman unlike the others. Ask yourself, do they exist? If so, how do you know I am not one of them? I'm willing to entertain the idea that I am, in fact, just like other females and have just convinced myself that I'm not. I come to my conclusions rationally and empirically and am always open to the possibility that I may be wrong. Your analysis of me might be more credible if we weren't married with children. The rules change when real-life happens. I'm not some college whore dating the Alpha, he is the father to my children and we've built a life together.
Also is it not unique to homeschool ones children? I have never met a redpilled woman who didn't have a boyfriend shoving it down her throat, I came to this reality on my own free will. Only about 2% of the female population are Intuitive Thinkers. My uniqueness, if you will, is a burden. I have some characteristics of an alpha female without the ability to connect with others. I have no real social skills and no real friends (so I'm obviously not an alpha) but I'm not a beta either, I don't possess the ability to follow social norms and I never have. This puts me in the "weird" zone. Tell me, what percent of the female population shares these traits with me. Or do you think I am being disingenuous?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Take a look at how many white women voted for Trump and realize that you're not as unique as you might think that you are. Women have a tendency to mimic certain features that they value in their men, I'm assuming that your politics are generally aligned with your Alpha's, especially since you seem to enjoy sharing them with him. It's a bit like a girlfriend who suddenly starts wearing a Patriots jersey when she starts dating a guy who's a football fan from Boston.
[–]RedPillMom[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
You couldn't be more wrong. I red-pilled him and he has no particular affinity for politics. I think it is sweet and charming that he entertains my theories and rants because he knows I have a passion for these things and no one else to talk to about it. He makes an effort to read the articles I send him so he is somewhat up to date and can keep up in conversation. So it is actually the opposite.
Do you consider white women who voted for Trump to be red-pilled? I certainly don't.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The guy obviously isn't some limp wristed, beta liberal if he's an alpha who's out fucking other women. He sounds like a lot of conservative alpha guys that I've met who do similar things. He might not have an affinity for politics, but I'd guess that he'd lean somewhere to the right if you pressed him.
As for being red-pilled, there's all kinds of different schools of thought on what that means. For some it's a sexual strategy, for others it's the alt-right. I consider most women who voted for Trump to be women who are married to an alpha, and live in traditional gender relationships with families. My sister is one of them.
[–]RedPillMom[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Of course he leans right. What has that got to do with it? Does he care about the Le Pen election in France? or the immigration crisis in Europe? or the terrible situation of the Boars in South Africa? Only because I do. He leans right, I made him alt-right. I have a passion for the truth, all truth. I introduced him to the Daily Stormer, Stefan Molyneux, and Roosh V, not the other way around. I evolved from an ancap libertarian to alt-right and brought him along for the ride. If it weren't for me, he would have still voted for Trump, sure, but that isn't what I consider redpilled.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Personally I don't really get involved with politics, it's mostly just propaganda based on whatever form of tribalism appeals to your point of view. The Daily Stormer and Stefan Molyneux aren't the kinds of things I'd personally bother to follow but whatever works for you.
The annoyance of what I personally had with your post was that there wasn't any actual questions in your post. As was pointed out by another user, this isn't a forum for blogging. All you did was ramble on about your relationship with your husband, on and on and on, and then concluded about how there were going to be even more chapters to how your relationship with your alpha husband made you feel. Sounds like you're upset because you don't consider yourself to be a typical woman, and yet your alpha husband isn't reacting with oneitis. He's got a strong abundance mentality.
Next time, just ask a question, and get to the point as quickly as possible.
[–]RedPillMom[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn't come to the right place, I accept that.
[–]blackedoutfast1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
so what's your question?
this is /r/askTRP not /r/WomenBlogging4Validation
From the rules in /r/TRP:
If you are asking for advice for a specific scenario, or your post contains a story of something that happened to you and isn't a field report, it belongs in /r/asktrp.
This is a story of something that has happened to me. It would have not happened had society been how it were 100 years ago. There wouldn't be an abundance of sluts for him to cheat with. My situation (young SHM) would be the norm and I might have more support in my decisions. My story is relevant because I followed my instincts at a young age, did not follow societies standards and in another lifetime it would have turned out differently.
[–]RedPillMom[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You peoples judgment of me is no different than that of feminists. Feminists have told women it is better to be single than with an imperfect man. Feminists would tell me what a strong woman I am if I left him and have judged me as a weak 50's throwback for staying with a cheater. It would be some kind of self-empowerment after all to be a single mom, collecting child support, while my children go to public school because I can no longer homeschool them. I mean, he's a bad guy, right? Leaving him to live a life as an alpha widow and single mother is the empowering thing to do, amirite?
hypocrites
We've established that OP is a dude, the only question is: is he touching himself thinking about the woman he's pretending to be?
Are you trolling me or do you really think that?
If you do, it's almost flattering.
What would you think if you knew for sure that I was in fact who I say I am?
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