Since discovering the red pill many aspect of my life have changed, more success with women, & etc. it all makes sense but does anyone have trouble letting go of what they used to think love was?

1Pink1Stink · 2019-02-06T06:53:17+00:00

You learn to adapt and expect less out of people, not just women.

MattyAnon · 2019-02-06T15:52:02+00:00

The thing is I still think it’s out there even though my experience say otherwise

It isn't out there, it doesn't exist. Women are women.

You can have an awesome life, great friends and great relationships with women. REALLY great. REALLY REALLY great. Especially without exclusivity.

But it's not love like you were taught it as a kid. That's parental love, and while people pretend it's the same thing it really is not.

Beware any woman who preys on this weakness in you. Her definition of "unconditional love" is really unconditional providership from you to her while she gets fat. "But you said you loved me" is used against you to demand unconditional support while she stuffs more lard into her mouth.

"Love" will only be used as your obligation, never as her responsibility.

You've had all the "true love" in your life you'll ever get. You're an adult now. Don't give it, don't expect it, and don't live your life chasing a unicorn.

Have great times with great people. Never sign an exclusivity contract with anyone.

Love: give it up, it does not exist for men.

jerrymcguiver · 2019-02-06T08:08:41+00:00

My wife puts up with my bpd rage fits but i feel if she had a branch she would swing to it. Low smv keeps her around in my case not her love. Yet still i feel a sense of false hope she loves me no matter what and would stay if i got morbidly obese etc.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-02-06T20:44:00+00:00

The core of the beta is Maternalization.

That is, wanting to recreate and redress the fractured relationship with their mothers.

What they think "love" is, is all the ways their relationship with their mom was frustrated as a child. They want to go back and find their ideal mother figure who will love them unconditionally. Or rather love them with unconditional dysfunction.

Of course no woman in the world is interested in mothering and emotionally nurturing a grown ass adult man. Or if they are, that kind of relationship doesn't make her want to fuck him, because she's not a pedo.

reddit309 · 2019-02-06T09:03:12+00:00

Love still exists. People on here act as if women are the only ones who love conditionally. You arent gonna fall in love with a girl you dont find attractive (looks). Shes not gonna love you if she doesnt find you attractive (looks, money).

If you ever thought love was just purely based on matching personalities and hobbies then you were just delusional but I doubt anyone actually ever believed that. The only case where that holds true is when neither lover brings anything to the table lol.

MattyAnon · 2019-02-06T14:55:08+00:00

there is still love and romance bro. we are all humans and equal. the red pill is about discovering what works for men and what works with women. you might have to let go of the fairytale idea - which itself might simply be cover for being lazy and getting unattractive - but there is still beautiful love to be experienced.

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