Alright so to preface this i want to mention i’m 16 (she’s 1 year older) and in Highschool so stuff will probably not make sense according to TRP. Anyway, my LTR/gf mentioned the other day that the furthest she got with her ex (they lasted 1.5 years) was a hand job and fingering, and she said she was really uncomfortable with this. I know for a fact this is true because i’m friends with the ex, this doesn’t bother me too much. But what does bother me is the fact that things only started to happen after a year of dating. So my question here is do I escalate as normal and see what happens? or do we actually talk about this? If this is a frame thing on my part, what do I do? Thanks fam!