Okay dudes, I know the general TRP advice is don't talk about relationship shit with girls you're seeing. Just let your actions frame the relationship, and let her bring it up if necessary. However I wonder if it would be worth breaking the rule in this situation?

Basically, there's this one girl who I hooked up with last year. She was an hour late to our first date, but BP me didn't really care - like a puppy I was just happy to see her. We still ended up fucking that night haha. She then flaked on our second date, and I was pretty pissed off at the time. I vowed to next her, but I ended up bumping into her a couple weeks later and didn't even confront her about it. I asked her out again and got deflected with an LJBF, so I left it at that. However, I hit her up a few months later and we ended up chatting in my room and making out (would have gone further but she had to leave the next day for an overseas internship).

So there's a lot of shit that I let her get away with there - somehow it seems she's still interested in fucking me tho. She hasn't hit me up yet, but I'm sure I'll see her next year at uni, and plan to invite her over when I do. Wondering if it would be worth having a talk to her to set expectations? I have become a lot more RP since last time and wouldn't let any girl get away with all that shit anymore - should I lay down the law for her? Or could that be seen as bitter, and I should just move forward in our relationship. What are your experiences?

And yep, don't tell me I have oneitis for this slut - I already know.

TL;DR: trying to regain frame in a relationship, should I talk to her?