A little backstory needed, a year ago when I was 18 I got into a situation where I was "sleeping" between 2 girls (friends of eachother), one wanted me to pop her cherry but her cunt was bleeding and the other was into my friend. So anyway I'm rolling around feeling them both up having a great time (also very drunk) but it doesn't go further and I go to sleep. The next day the one that liked me is all cold and whatnot, thought that I wanted a relationship or whatever. I soft next and she reinitiates but is a terrible texter plus still mad/wary of me. I run some game on her and we arrange to meet up at a festival. I bought her drinks because she's underage but made her pay me back full price plus I had some drinks. Anyway she was with some little guy this whole time. He's 2 years younger than me, a foot shorter and has a much lower overall smv than me so I wasn't even interested in competeing with him, acted like idgaf and even talked to one of her friends abit. Im not sure this was a shit test cause I feel she was genuinely attracted to him. But also to me.. I'm soft nexting her but want to know if sliding in her friends DM would be a bad idea..