Hey bros I need help with this. I know way back in the back of my mind there's a part of me that is hamstering for us being friends so I can fuck her, I know this. But apart of me also thinks hey she was actually a genuine really cool friend and I'd like to have a pre-red pill female friend still who I think is authentic, honest, and nice. So TL;DR How to interpret and resolve whether she's shit testing me and/or if I'm being an orbiter bitch?

Story Time

I have a female friend for several years who I rarely talked too but have a very close bond with as coworkers for a few months initially. She was 18 then and still very young now; sweet, innocent nerd that's a solid 6-7 redhead. I was shy and nervous and she was always very talkative personable, approachable and welcoming. I had a mini crush on her admittedly. But we move apart geographically and likewise platonically.

Fast forward to now. Recently after I had my first relationship, and broadcast my self-improvement in social media a few months back (working out) she came back into my life. I called her out of the blue to celebrate (read:brag) my accomplishment and she stressed we should keep in touch. I called her a few months back and we caught up. I mostly steered the conversation into her love life and she talked about her current bf and former bf in college.

Again I'm very aware of my place in the friendzone. Becoming more red pilled though and her being in a whole nother time zone idc about gaming her. I have more pressing priorities like my mission, lifting, and gaming girls irl in my city. So after that convo she suggested we correspond again in January. I texted her around that time, she texted back, I texted again with a lighthearted comment but she didn't text me back. I shrugged it off and called her about a week after Valentine's and left a voicemail. Again she ignored me. At this time too I think she's more aware of her sexuality and of validation. Remember she's under 25, so I'm wondering if she's trying to coerce attention from me so she can be validated. I wait a couple days and text back a hand "Hi" emoji 👋🏾. She responds and says she's going to work, I text I'm in class and she doesn't text back again.

What to make of this behavior? Do I dead her friendship? Just not give her anymore attention?