Hey guys I have been a lurker of trp for quite some time, about four years to be exact. So a little about me I’m 28 6’2 and weigh 205 pounds. I’ve graduated college,serves in the military and traveled quite a bit.

To make a long story short I met this girl about 7 months back in a foreign country. She immediately let me smash her the first night we hooked up and afterwards we kinda jumped into a long distance relationship.

So fast forward seven months I come back to visit her and we hit it off for the first two weeks together very fine. So fine that I tell her I want to marry her and change her Facebook status to us getting married.

Immediately after things start to take a turn for the worst. She states things like “I wish you had several more inches on your penis”, “ you have no shape to your body”, “my last boyfriend had properties and more money than you what do you have?”

Overall she was very disrespectful and really kind of took a toll on my psyche because I admit I am insecure about certain things. So at this point I return back to the states and she calls me and says how she misses me and loves me. But one red flag is her actions don’t align with her words.

I vividly remember several times when we were together in person and she was non affectionate. She also would pull away from me as I would try to be intimate. My question is guys do I just ghost her and never speak to her again?

She’s 33 years old and I am 28. I think I pulled the gun on trying to marry her and I just want a second perspective. Another thing that weighs on me is she has a fibroid and has no kids. How can I marry a person like that? Please give me advice guys