I’d like to have a discussion on marriage. Marriage should be special and getting married should come with certain things being just in a relationship doesn’t offer. If you already call your bf hubby or his parents your in-laws you are giving him one less reason to actually need to marry you. He is getting a benefit of marriage without you getting the actual commitment of marriage. You can pretend and play house and say he is marriage minded until you are blue In the face but until he has actual reason to marry you the two of you will stay boyfriend and girlfriend. Calling someone husband or wife should be a special privilege not the newest trendy nickname for your so. It should actually mean something. If you throw around marriage and getting married causally it could cause your so to not feel the need to marry you at all. Marriage should be taken seriously.