My LTR has some issues with cell changes in her uterus and had gone through som really invasive and degrading procedures, she says she feels like she’s been raped and on top of that she’s having a real cancer scare. Talking on the phone yesterday she told me she’ll probably not be able to have sex for a while because of the stuff she’s going through. Just responded with a calm “That’s cool babe. Don’t worry about it”. She seemed very happy and thankful about my answer. I feel like she’s in a place where the shit testing has turned into a lot of comfort testing and this situation is uncharted territory for me. How do I deal with it without coming off as too nice? I feel like this isn’t the typical scenario where I’m just her shoulder to cry on because she seems kind of embarrassed when calling me for support and she’s being very submissive and almost childlike when I tell her everything’s going to be fine etc. I just don’t want to risk sliding into being the overly supportive simp that I was in my earlier relationships.