Context:

With Tinder is kind of easy to sexualize conversations with remote matches to the point they want to fuck you bad enough to make it worth to organize a trip to have a sex marathon weekend or at least to "fuck her to sleep". I'm kind of getting good at this and I have 2 remote ones in different cities and 4 others that are prospects (already having lovely dirty talks over text, pics, calls, etc) with desire escalating nicely.

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Condition:

This is important to me, I have as rule to not hurt people and I don't want to lie. I plan to keep this because I feel good about it and plates love this when they hear me declaring this, and even when they drop (or I let them fall), things stay positive for potential later reactivation.

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Question:

What do you say to local plates you want to keep in your rotation when you go to fuck your remote ones?

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Extra context:

For the remotes this is a non-issue but I do need inspiration from you guys on what to say to a local plate that is a regular in my rotation that is fantastic at sex and quite hot. 23y/o, I would say 6 or 7 SMV, she's in great shape, do not break my balls, hard working, remarkable oral (she's great a deep throat), awesome dirty talks, very good in bed in general, if for her she would fuck me every day and when she does she goes all the way to monkey fucks or long sessions of tantric sex, so lets say she's my best local plate and I want to keep it like that.

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In a couple of weeks from now, I'll go in a trip to spend a weekend to have a sex marathon with this other plate that is not as hot as my local plate but the connection is so fucking good that, well, the trip is going to happen. My only reason to go to that city is to be in that resort hotel fucking her morning, afternoon and night LOL.

BTW my brothers-in-arms some local friends knows this but if anyone asks me why I go there I don't have anything to say 😅.

  • I'm used to be very open before redpilled, somehow less after being redpilled
  • No need to be overt in communication but, again, I don't want to lie
  • Since severals months from now, I'm following Rollo's advice of social media silence from friday afternoons to monday mornings (so not having pics on that weekend would not be a surprise for the rest of the plates and prospects).

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My current plan:

To the plates I always playfully say to them that I'm their sex-toy/their Christian Grey/Spartan, whatever... and I agree when, in that moment when you let her ultra satisfied, they say in indignation "you are useless" (which we know it means you are useless as beta). With this, it should be enough for them to understand that I'm not offering exclusivity. But this plate already asked once over text if I'm seeing someone else and I didn't reply and I changed subject.

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What you guys suggest? How you handle this in your rotation? Thanks