These days a discussion came up between me and my LTR(19y) about her past relationships(she's got only 2 before):

  1. She lost her virginity at almost 16y to him and he was cheating on her, it lasted 1 year. She once told me in the beginning that what she regrets the most is the day when she met him.(We were playing trickle truth, i didn't ask her anymore).

  2. Just found out from her(i've asked indirecty) that this guy whom she had a LTR of 2 years with was taking drugs. During a fight she wanted to leave then he forcefully grabbed her by the arms then she started crying. He didn't hit her. She said that she started feeling like a shame to go out with him in public. And that he quit once congrats to her who was being "a good influence on him' then he started again and she broke up.

Guys, i'm just confused:without her telling me, i couldn't have guessed. I mean she's feminine, kind, doesn't make up, always trying to surprise me, respectful, great degrees, amazing respect for her father. A negative one as an eg could be that she wears crop tops almost everytime(great body).

Surprisingly, we would expect her to be 'damaged goods', is that right? What concerns me is: could you make a bigger impact on her? Even if my SMV is higher, they gave her drama, emotional rollercoasters etc. Looks like she wasn't such a good decision maker, but she was quite naive at that age.

What's your opinion guys? What would you do in my place?