A friend of mine claims to be very alpha. He may get lots of chicks by not being the best looking dude. However with tonnes of cash (from his parents) to fork out on trips, cars etc its not that hard.

Yet, me and him have often related and clashed on the whole basis of a decent gf.

With me having a far more RP ideology then him here's whats happened.

We have both recently met girls. He has gotten into a relationship. Mines at a very very early stage. Here is the contrast lets start with him:

He works in events. He met his girl who was promoting that night. Dressed extremely slutty. She meets him, gets with him, blows him the first night. They go out a few times. Ignoring her slutty behaviour on first meeting, throws loads of cash at her. Jets her to holidays, takes her on expensive dinner dates, etc etc. Makes her his gf. This girl is 20, shes indeed a solid 8/9 has moved to this city ALONE to "start a new life." Has no social circle hardly, therefore no reason to go out other then with him. Claims to also have been with "5 guys" a very common trend upon sluts to keep the guy at ease.

So lets go onto myself. Baring in mind very early stages:

Met on facebook. I thought she was somebody else (genuinely) but randomly had friends in common. We start talking. Week later eventually gives me her number. Week later we meet for a 10 minute chat at a function she was working at. I go on holiday, we talk but not that much. I come back a week later we arrange a date. She's happy to see me, as am I. We discuss what were after (personally after a LTR as I cant be arsed with going out for time being as its drained my funds and energy massively) and she thinks similar. We hook up. We talk but not often, we arrange to see eachother again. There is no bullshit. No games. She split the bill at the bar. She's 27, looks like a 20 year old. Solid 8. Only had 3 LTR's in her life. Can vouch as her friend is a family friend of mine.

Despite my example being closer to the wall and so on, there is absolutely no need to throw your money at girls. There is also no excuse for ignoring the obvious. If shes fucking you or whatever the night she meets you, youre in for a world of shit. I dont care how much you get on.

As for me, im not saying my way is the way to go. But if the goal is to have that "hot gf" well its definitely not going about it the way the first example has.