original background to the thread was here: https://www.re ddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/86cx1v/meeting_a_girl_overseas_with_a_boyfriend/

UPDATE:

met her on my last night as that was the only spare time each of us had. cute, funny, easy to talk to, great body. easily 8+ she took me to a really posh/nice bar. started having drinks dropped the 'my bf' in the convo early on. i blanked it no awkward silences, great convo, drinks flowing then started getting IoI's , she ordered some tequila shots more of the same got to 2 am. she settled the tab (must have been in the $300 range easily) and wouldn't take my money at all.

said shed walk me back to my apartment more IoIs. i started Kino. worked a charm. making out within 5 mins of walking. she cant keep off me

cant come back to mine as she has work early for an important meeting, and also my friends are in the apartment she keeps half trying to go then turning around coming back for more i leave it there. call her a cab and let her go.

my original thoughts are possibly drink (but she wasnt in anyway drunk/steaming) and she might regret it in the morning. was a fun night anyway

next day i wake up to messages from her saying how shes gutted im leaving and wished i was here for longer.

now shes coming to England. with no bf :D. its obviously not a serious thing and cant be but a great experience non the less.

feel sorry for the bf but when shes gonna branch swing/ trade up shes gonna. be the alpha. confidence (not arrogance) is an aphrodesiac.

(also hit the gym hard before i went. 6 pack, not 'big' but athletic for sure).

questions welcome.

Ash