Hey everyone. First time writing in here. Been reading for a while but right now even if this might sound like an easy problem to solve for most of you, its not for me.

So I'v met this girl in a bar maybe 2 months ago. I was alone (I often go to bars alone because it forces me to interact with people I don't know) and just started talking with her because she was next to me on the dance floor. Turns out the girl was pretty cool and cute. Spent the night with her and her friends. Took her number and left.

Few days later I texted her back, offered her to go grab a drink and she accepted. Once we met up, I noticed that she seemed very stressed out to the point where she was almost shaking. I am an anxious person so I saw that quickly and instead of being a dick I made sure to be sweet to her and make her feel comfortable. I started noticing that she was actually a pretty smart girl. She told me she was in college. Once the stress came down we spoke about very deep stuff. The universe. Politics. Human emotions. Family problems. Anxiety. Also, feminism. She was against most of it and did recognize how castrating most of the women in that movement are nowadays. I was blown away. Cute, feminine, smart.

So a few weeks passed and we kept on seeing each others here and there. Did not have sex for the first few weeks but we did basic stuff. Blowjob. Massages. Ate her boobs. I had tried once to have sex with her but she looked me in the eyes with the cutest eyes in the world and said '' I'm shy ''. So I waited. Because I legit liked her.

So during the weekend I invited her to a party with all my friends. Keep in mind all of my friends are 26 / 30 years old. We had fun and all. My friends liked her. She looks kinda young but she's so cool and cute that I did not really care. She was in college after all! After the party, we came back and we finally had sex. But, kind of weird sex. I could not help but notice she seemed overly insecure and would not let herself go. She would always cover herself. I never got to see her vagina. She would not let me do a cuni to her. She would cover her boobs too. Like she didn't like her body or she was ashamed. I mean I am used to girls being insecure before the age of 30 but this was a bit much. I did not understand how a good looking and smart girl like her would still be that insecure.

On the next day I wake up with her. We eat breakfast. We have fun. Give each others affection. We listened to some Jack Johnson and I would sing in her ears. We would kiss. It was very, very sweet. We had sex again. She was acting again in a kind of insecure way, but the sex was better and she was letting herself go more. We both had a great orgasm that morning and we kissed passionately.

Next day I received a text.

Dan, we need to talk. I'm like fuck, fuck, fuck. What did I do. Did she have a disease. Was she not taking the pill. Did she think this was going too fast. I was freaking the fuck out.

Turns out she told me she lied to me from the first night we met. She never was in college, in fact she was still in high school and was underage. She told me she lied because we met in a bar. Her explanation to why she waited to tell me is because she always wanted to spend more time with me before blowing the lid off. She knew I would freak out and probably reject her if I knew, so she kept the lie going on. I won't lie I freaked out. I did not know what to say. And now I'm at a point where I must chose my next move. What would you guys do ? As a guy I almost feel like I can't be angry at her. I bullshited my way into a vagina so many times that I just can't be mad for that. What scares me is the huge age gap. I like that girl. But she's not even in the bitchy years of college where 90 % of women will just go batshit insane, become unreliable and probably cheat while college (I know for a fact. I'v been to college and I'v fucked so many girls who had boyfriends its scary).

So right now I'm thinking maybe I should get out of this or maybe she's worth the effort and the embarrassment. I don't know. I'm lost. I'm feeling weird. But a part of me is saying that I haven't met a girl this feminine and interesting in a long time. The game around my age ( 28 years old ) is so horrible sometimes I just feel like giving up.

What would you guys do ?