When you talk about women to a woman, she imagines you're talking about her. Female self-obsession and narcissism trigger her defenses (unless you're talking about a woman she hates), so she projects any criticism onto herself. Thus, when you see a woman complain about "judgmental" men who don't want to settle for sluts, she's really talking about men not settling for her. Any harsh words about a particular woman's sluthood is a critique of her sluthood.

It's why Reddit is filled with women who complain about slut-shaming. Why? Because deep down, sluts know they are worth less to men than chaste women. A chaste woman shows self-control and behavior that makes her a good wife. A slut wants to ride cock until she gets bored and wants a family (and what happens when she grows bored with her husband and children?). Why would any man settle for a slot when he could have a faithful wife?

Past performance predicts future results. If she's been with a lot of guys, you're probably not the last.