Girl in /r/sex struggles with Beta BF not being good at being dominant and assertive

solomonroots · 2014-08-25T21:47:16+00:00

Look at second comment / Left First for context

"Do you ever struggle with him not being good at being dominant and assertive? I tried this with my husband but I just couldn't let go of the fact that typically I'm the more assertive one in our relationship. It just wasn't working for me....?"

Typical beta / provider relationship outside the bedroom creeps into the sexual realm of the relationship and will make it so that beta bf won't get to experience all that crazy shit in bed that a more alpha partner would get to experience.

edit- Another example of this in same thread here "really enjoy rough sex, and rape play, but my SO is too much of a nice guy to want to hurt me. :/"

chakravanti93 · 2014-08-26T02:37:43+00:00

I'm wondering if reading a book about dominant relationships will help him.

Women don't like 50 shades of grey. They like liking it because it's bad and leaving it around the house for their husband just hoping he'll get a clue.

70m copies ladies and gentlemen. 70 million houses out there just ripe for cuckolding but don't take my word for it.

Check for gun safes.

2014-08-26T02:27:46+00:00

Reading about men who can't be assertive in bed makes me cringe. If one Red Pill truth rings universally true, it's the one which is obviously lacking in the men in that thread. The appeal to animal instinct is the EASIEST thing to apply. If you are shit at everything else this is the one thing that makes a positive lasting impression. Fail that and ask yourself, what is keeping her around?

might_bitey_big_bum · 2014-08-26T21:57:12+00:00

personally i like the entire father daughter thing

Yeah.. that's not a fetish.. that's just fucked up.

Title	Girl in /r/sex struggles with Beta BF not being good at being dominant and assertive
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	August 25, 2014 9:45 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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