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A woman's sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship.

tom9152

April 13, 2014
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Title A woman's sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship.
Author

tom9152

Upvotes 27
Comments 16
Date April 13, 2014 3:27 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
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Comments

[–]ekjohnson913 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Duh. Women trade sex for commitment. Once they have commitment why would they give up sex. C'mon man.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Briffaults Law is a cold hearted bitch

[–]Exactly_what_I_think10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Misleading title.

A woman's sexual attraction begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sexual attraction for the man locked down anyway

[–]Clauderoughly5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Solution: Dread Game

[–]nrjk1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

What's the dread game? I'm fairly new and haven't seen this.

[–]Clauderoughly4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dream game, is essentially always subtly remind your partner that you always have other options, and that other women still find you attractive.

She always has to work to keep your attention and attraction.

Too many women assume that once they are married, it's game over and that they can get fat, and stop trying.

As painful as divorce can be, the nuclear option should never be off the table.

So if you are in a LTR with a woman, you need to set standards and make it very clear that if standards are not adhered to, then there will be problems.

[–]shitaintworthit1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And it's not a bluffing game, a woman will sense that.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You need to read more before you make posts like these.

Dread game would be instigating dread in your partner, by suggesting or carrying out essentially another relationship. You're with her, out for coffee, and you start flirting with the other girls there.

[–]heshKesh4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They interviewed the women and asked them how they felt. I'll take those results with a grain of salt. Her sex drive may have waned....for your beta ass. I think she'd still like alpha fux, even if she's too embarrassed to admit it to a self-report study.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Social desirability bias.

"If I say that I find my husband repulsive unattractive and he doesn't give me the tingles turn me on, I'll look like a bitch. I'll just say that 'my sexual appetite declined' and I have a reason to deny my husband sex that no one can blame me for."

[–]rj886312 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And that's why you learn how to properly dread!

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Moral of the story, master dread game if you are interested in LTRs and want a healthy sex life. Granted it's just as valid to not commit in the first place. That's not to say you shouldn't be screening the whole time anyway.

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/
http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/16/the-gift-of-anxiety/

[–]TheRationalMale.comRollo-Tomassi0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually this post is probably more relevant:

http://therationalmale.com/2014/02/23/beta-fucks/

[–]TheRationalMale.comRollo-Tomassi1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What makes for the hottest, most memorable, most intense sexual experience after a couple get married:

A.) A planned-in-advance, "Date Night", where the kids get dropped off at grandmas, in order to "keep things fresh" and re-kindle the romance women need.

Or

B.) Desperate, hot, spontaneous Make-up sex inspired by the anxiety and dread of a breakup or a near-breakup?

Which do you suppose results in unplanned pregnancies most often?

[–]writeonbrother0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So why are half of them cheating? They just want different dick, is all.

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