texting advice

sureshot8 · 2014-10-21T11:02:45+00:00

1) you blew it by setting yourself up as an annoying needy beta friend

2) you need to figure out a new game, this line "be my teacher" obviously annoyed her and you pressed on, which makes me think your ability to pick up on social cues needs work as well.

3) keep your texts short and vague, and never type more words than her.

Women don't need another child to take care of, they want a man to take care of them.

teeelo · 2014-10-21T20:11:15+00:00

There are entire posts and links dedicated to fixing your text game.

Search for those first before posting a new thread.

Also: /r/asktrp

Brocccooli · 2014-10-22T00:08:21+00:00

There was zero rapport.

You had no way of judging whether she was into you or not and kinda just said "fuck it, gonna ask her anyway."

Me: And that's all the Spanish I know...

Conversation pretty much dies here. "It's my second language." or "I'm even better than you." is more playful and fun.

Me:What do you want to be then?

So boring. How many times has she heard that from prospective guys? I'll bet a lot.

Overall, you went in too quick and came off as needy. Let the conversation flow naturally and be more flirty and playful.

thenotorious88 · 2014-10-22T06:00:16+00:00

You started good. Middle was bad, came across too serious/trying to hard. Last msg was terrible, I would of not replied and then waited for her to text then reply back 1-2 days later with something distant n simple. If she didnt reply wait 2-3 wks n jus send "drinks?". If nothing then forget about it, onto the next one.

Remember to keep shit playful n not serious. Makr her start askin the serious questions n then respond like youre fucking around with a friend. Make her intrigued n she'll want to meet up n uv won half the battle.

Remember its a constant tug of war determining if your beneath or above her smv.

DougieTheCaker · 2014-10-20T22:59:29+00:00

Texting is hit or miss, just do it for your own entertainment, keep it brief. Some will say don't ask questions, wait a lot before u respond, be aloof etc, iits all bogus unless you have already established attraction.

I do this and it always works with atleast 1 person. ill send it to a couple broads if im bored alone in the evening

''where r u lets meet up now''

they usuall laugh or go ''what the hell'', ''are u serious''

I say ''im in the car give me ur coordinates''

they laugh more etc if they show interest arrange a meetup if not just dont even answer and do the same thing again at a later date

theyll usually atleast say i cant now howbout another time or somthin, if they say yes and u cant cause u were bluffing (i bluff or do it for jokes all the time)...i go ''shit thats too far, next time''

evafha · 2014-10-21T05:29:21+00:00

I don't know about texting game. I usually just call back and say that I don't like texting except for minor logistics. Makes you seem old school, that works in my age group, might not work in yours.

Title	texting advice
Author	jonsmitherz
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	October 20, 2014 10:31 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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