I suck his dick before sex and during it but he never goes down on me. I don’t feel like I should have to ask him to do so - never have had to in the past. What annoys me is the fact he used to eat his exes ass but here is is - not licking me out before sex. We literally begin with my dryer than the desert. I have expressed that I can’t just go in and have sex without appropriate foreplay Do I have a right to be annoyed knowing that he would do things like that with his ex? I feel like he was more sexually attracted to her than me. I have spoken to him and he says that he will put more effort in but I can’t help being irritated that I almost have to force him to try with me sexually.

I almost feel like he’s given his all to her sexually and I’m left with crumbs.

We’re in our late twenties and been together 9 months