I'm quite successful but feel like a total loser

[deleted] · 2019-04-25T12:31:08+00:00

was your dad or mom not around?

monsteroh · 2019-04-25T12:49:29+00:00

Mate are you in Oxford?

thrwy75479 · 2019-04-25T13:02:32+00:00

Perhaps it's because you haven't yet proven yourself in the world. Women are born, men are made.

illgiveyouapapow · 2019-04-25T13:32:50+00:00

Well, fuck if I know tbh. But this is how I see it:

This life’s only meaning is to live. You are meant to live this live. You are a thinking rational being which has the capacity to direct his own life experience.

You must find for yourself some purpose. But you already have it. Your purpose is to live and experience this life.

You’re thinking to much about comparing yourself to other people. As if you need to compare yourself to Donald trump and if you don’t work as hard and efficiently as he does, you’re a worthless sack of shit.

That’s part of why people are so depressd and rifles with mental illness. We don’t understand that this life is meant to be lived. You use your rational mind to sustain your life. But just sustaining it is only the basics. You can achieve happiness through purpose. You gain purpose by first understanding that life is simply meant to be lived. Live that shit. Live that shit how the fuck you want to live it. Use your thinking mind to guide yourself towards whatever ends or goals you desire.

That doesn’t mean just smoke crack and do heroin. A rational thinking being such as yourself should understand that those things are only escapes from reality. This reality is the only one which exists and you can only find really happiness and purpose by existing in this reality and accepting that your life is meant to be lived. You are now free to choose how to live it. Nobody else can live your life, only you.

CaptDeadlift · 2019-04-25T12:57:21+00:00

Maybe your test is low? ( Test makes men happy)

Plan your shit.

Coming from a less successful guy but nonetheless successful you are doing good.

Try and make pals that you know will aid you in life (this will take a long time though).

bigboxguy · 2019-04-26T07:43:57+00:00

You listed things that should account to your happiness but don’t.

You probably feel worthless and like a loser because you need to list how many plates you have and your n count. No one really cares except you.

You probably don’t have close friends because you probably flex on others how great and accomplished you are.

Maybe start focusing on finding cool friends and not talking about yourself.

Title	I'm quite successful but feel like a total loser
Author	Bear224
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	April 25, 2019 12:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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