I'm a 22 (turning 23) year old who started back at university last year to study an engineering field. From 18-21 i pissed away my life doing drugs and partying excessively and dropped out of uni. I grew up with a single mum, in a broken family with 1 older half sibling. Currently live at home while working part-time and studying.

I have a 10k debt from stupid decisions which i am paying back. I pay minor bills but nothing expensive. And i drive an old toyota.

On a good day, i eat healthy, lift, work and do uni work. On a bad day i do the complete opposite.

I found TRP just before my 21st birthday and it has impacted my life significantly to the point where i have direction and drive.

I currently live in a shitty welfare apartment with just my mum. And always feel as though my car and home are not good enough for girls i talk with (who are definitely interested in me), and so i sabotage myself so i dont have to face potential rejection.

My goals for 2019 (before 2020) are to move out, pay off my debt and land a paid internship. The time commitment of living by myself and working enough to have money in conjunction with study commitments would mean i would not be able to find time for the gym.

Are these the right goals? Obviously my logistics are terrible but the gym is definitely what peaks the interests of women around me. What should i be aiming for over the next 3.5 years of my degree?

Edit: i had little to no success before TRP, since learning about the true nature of women I have been seeing escorts to satisfy my sexual need which I am still struggling to curb