When i go to approach to a place which isn't that big, lets say a patio with a party - i don't know anyone. Most of the people are in groups. Either sitting by the table or standing.

I can't approach there. When i approach them, and say "hey, i liked your style, i thought i;d come over to say hi, my name is Bittah" - its very cringy.

Especially when i approach soemeone, who luckily is standing alone or with a girlfriend, and people around start looking and listening to my "approach speech" - i get very confused.