Hi folks,

Let me introduce some of the problems i met in my life and look for possible solution

I was born in a family of super alpha father and strong, almost stubborn mother. Everything went well,until at the age of 10 my parents decide to separate (because of many reasons) and I continued to live with my mother alone.

Not so late after, every single problem that may arise in the fatherless family was blamed to him. Because he is "son of a bitch", "bastard", "careless asshole", you name it... Eventually this perceived guilt was shifted to me, especially in the cases when I misbehave or misperformed. "You look so much as your father", "You are such idiot like he is", "You remind me of this asshole". She never ever blamed her short fuse character for anything. AWALT

Going thru the puberty I reconnected with my father and realized that he actually is a great guy, with his strengths and weaknesses of course. However the damage was done and in all entire life I approach girls with a sense of guilt and when I'm trying to ask one for sex, I have the feeling that she is doing me a favor that I don't deserve or it will be unpleasant for her.

I'm good looking, fit, with a sense of humor and good heredity, which helped me to laid down tens of beautiful girls (I don't date HB7 or less). However this humble behavior really messes my long term relations and affects my performance with the new prospectives.

Recently I read the book No more nice guy, and apparently it is written for folks like myself. My question is : Has anyone been in a similar situation and how he coped with it?

TLDR: Mommy son, trained to please women is trying to break the chains. Book helped, bud life advises are most welcome.