I've read NMMNG, TMMSLF, NMMNG, WISNIFG, and the Mindful Attraction Plan. I've read these books recently.
I lift, and make good money.
I have been married for 5 months, I got my wife used to the fact that I always initiate talking after every fight, regardless of her being right or wrong.
Now after the last fight, I'm using the silent treatment and won't talk until she initiates a conversation.
I'm afraid that it's too late to create a frame, and don't know if the silent treatment will work, since it has been around two years since we started being in a committed relationship, back then I knew nothing about the red pill.
What are your thoughts to get me to gain a good frame?
Update:
Today she's supposed to go to the gyno, I only told her "We're going to the gyno today" on a text, and that's it.
I don't think that's giving her any type of validation as the gyno's visit is urgent.
After we're back, I'll be just giving the same level of non-existing attention unless she tries to break the silence.
I've decided not to argue or fight with her again, I've been DAREing her before on many occasions so it won't be a sudden change.
there doesn't seem to be anything here