This seems a little more complicated than banging some slut... My ltr (not a slut, or at least i hope) is a virgin and is really nervous about it. She talks about how some of her friends lost their virginity and how painful it was, and she says she isn’t ready, wants to wait, etc. it’s the usual ASD but i suspect it’s more being nervous, along with some ASD. How can a manipulate around this without being an ass to her?