Guys want to find a unicorn, which is a girl who isn't a girl or something. A nawalt, a non girl. But what they really want is a devoted woman, who assists him in his life, supports him to be the greatest man he can be, and loves having sex just with him.

This is totally attainable btw. And this isn't a girl you find as a guy. You 'make' her. But you don't actually make her, you don't even really change her. You just refuse to be around someone who isn't acting the ways you want her to act. The ways that improve your life. The truth of it is if a woman commits to you she wants to help you, she wants to feel like she's valuable to you, but the only way she'll know if she's doing so is if you tell her. Which you do through communication and I don't mean you sit down with your GF or wife with a list. I mean you smile when she's helpful, you hug and kiss her and tell her how awesome she is and how glad you are that she's here. How glad you are that you met her, and give her a big hug where you pick her up and spin her around and let her cling to you.

Use the 2/3rds rule. For every three things she does to show love, give her two back. But do not attack her. Simply show indifference. Keep her off guard so you remain unpredictable.

Also love? Let's get rid of that word cause love is nonsense. Action is what matters not feelings. And you should let your wife or GF know when she acts in accordance with supporting you in your life goals. You should act in such a way that she feels very good about herself when she does something that helps make your life easier. And when she does not you simply act indifferent. Because you are better than her.

And you should have conscious thought about how she improves your life because over time you really do take this shit for granted. So deliberately remember what your life was like before you had a great girl. And remember nobody was doing your laundry. You didn't come home to a clean house. You woke up earlier to make meals and when you came home, even if you were very very tired and it is very late and your body hurts, you didn't get to go sit on a couch and play on reddit. You had to cook dinner. And now most of your dinner is home made. So do indeed give your girl a tight loving hug and let her feel your back and squeeze your shoulders and let her feel good as well. Pick her up and spin her around. Hear her say, "yaaay" and smile that she made your life better. She just helped you and this makes her feel good. By showing her how happy you are that she vacuumed the carpets, that she made your house look so good, that she turned things into food, that your clothes are clean and smell good, everything she does, you show your appreciation. She did not have to do shit but she did all of that. Appreciate it. And you make a good woman.

Now the sex part. This shit does indeed get rough in a real relationship. There's no limerance after a few months of living together. There's no hysterical bonding. You actually have to want to have sex with the woman. Only LTR a woman you desire. And if she's your future wife or your wife then you show her how much you love her by not only appreciating everything she does that she does not have to do, but by fucking her like you want her and want her body. A part of who she is is her body and it's clearly so. She'll put on makeup, why? To look pretty for you. She'll get out of her pajamas or her comfy clothes when she knows she's going to see you. Because she hopes that you want what's on display. Show her that you want her she is your girl after all and every thing she is doing is for you. Make sure she feels really good for doing all of that by passionately fucking her in any way you want. Make sure you compliment her for trying to look pretty for you. Compliment her makeup. Tell her how hot she looks. Smack her ass and grab her vagina. Make her feel good about herself for trying and then trying to look pretty makes her feel good. Then fuck her hard and good. You don't even need to fuck her vagina for this she'll feel good because she made you feel good. You can bang her ass every day for six months and she'll bend over, close her eyes, and feel good knowing that she's so pretty you want to shove your dick into her.

Don't forget you attract more flies with honey than with vinegar. You don't want to hurt your girl directly ever. (with exceptions for more advanced moves). You never want her to start to associate you with feeling bad about herself though. She won't want to be around you if you're not a source of fun, happiness, and positive feelings. If she does start feeling the way around you then she'll start to look for a way out. Don't ever deliberately attack or harm her. You can withhold your affection but never ever say something truly evil to a girl. Never tell her you think she's a dumb slut or a retard. Never lie and say you do nothing to help my life or anything like it. If it's true the relationship is over anyway you don't need to say anything just bang her then leave. Never ever tell your girl that she's ugly or that she is repulsive to you even if you meet up or come home and she's in pajamas, no makeup, and has gained ten pounds or chopped all her hair off or something crazy. Never attack or harm your partner ever, but always ALWAYS reward and honestly tell her and show her how much you appreciate her.

Your attack is simply your withdrawal. Because you contribute so much to her feeling good about herself that without you there she will naturally start to feel bad. Attacks show weakness. You will hurt her so much more with a blank expression and a withdrawing of intimacy then you ever would by screaming at her and throwing a watermelon on the floor. Be such an amazing source of fun positive feelings and passionate sex that your withdrawal itself is the worst attack you could ever make.

Now onto women. Women seem to know on some level that men value their support not just their vaginas. The catastrophic changes of the past fifty years have turned this on its head but you know the old saying. Behind every great man is a great woman. And it's true. And on a deep level women know it.

Women do indeed want to support a man. A lot of them just struggle to find a man worth supporting. But they do it anyway. Girls, pretty much all of them, will try to support you and your life. This is how they help you to grow and to create more resources that will benefit herself and her children. The key is that the man is bound to her and to her children. Women at this point still simply assume this is true of every guy who bangs them. It's not. It's true of the guy who marries them, most of the time, and yeah it's true of the guys who bang them some of the time. Hence you change her from an AWALT to a unicorn.

Women will do this. They will naturally become wife material in their support of you. They will start to think about you and your life and how to make your life better, and they hope that they do. That they change you through their support. That they change you into a better harder working man who brings in more, who hunts with a sharper eye, who thinks clearer with a good night's sleep, and who can therefore go out into the world and win even harder.

And women want to change a man with her body as well. By offering you her body she wants to give you everything you need to drain your balls. To satisfy your reproductive drive. She'll offer herself up as the vessel to pour yourself into and whole heartedly. And yes it is meant to change you. From a hunter of women to a caretaker of a family. She'll offer herself. But because there are guys who only want to exhibit this change in a girl often girls become jaded and hesitant.

This is why young girls will throw themselves into a relationship, any or whatever relationship they get into when young. They'll give everything. Unfortunately in modern clown world it's very frowned upon for a quality guy to go after a pre-jaded young girl, so only guys who don't give a fuck do so. And they are often criminals and assorted scumbags, maybe drunk crazy homeless guys cough. Not every girl can pull an atlas b and still go whole heartedly for each new guy ready to give her love. Sluts do and man sluts are pretty great. So the non criminal non morons are going to have to learn to go for younger and show her and tell her you want her to be that level of support and that her investment into you will not be in vain. That she can indeed support you. And hence change you from hunter to caretaker.

If you want to get that level of support and desperate love from a girl you either need to find a young enough one or you need to use tricks to make her think you are going to commit to her so she opens her heart and the heart between her legs to you fully.

Since women are unable to understand that guys exist and each guy is different they have just been trying to change every guy into a caretaker before they meet him. Hence the bizarre rants about how guys need to be responsible for banging his way into a cute girl's heart. That all men are responsible for what very few men do. Don't take offense at this guys women honestly can't tell the difference between a guy who wants love and a guy who wants vagina. We look exactly the same at the beginning. Allow a girl to change you with her love and support. Allow her to have her fantasy. Hunt and be a hunter who hunts her, and allow her to change you. Make it clear that you can be a hunter again at any time and that it's only her and her effort that keeps your feral side at bay. Show her that feral side at times. Let her earn your support.

And then if she's not the best you can get when you turn thirty dump her and start dating a new young girl.