I made out with a 9/10 girl from my class at university yesterday (Wednesday) at a local small bar that we went for after class drinks. We made out and before she left she asked/ told me, pick me up friday and we will go to this cool "multi bar place". I told her, I ain't picking you up and we both left. Now in my rational male mind I never confirmed to either picking her at her place nor even confirming her that I'm going to this venue tomorrow night (Friday).
However I suspect she might try to flip the script when she texts me tomorrow afternoon (friday) and see if I can pick her up and take her out to this place. Or say some bs like "but you told me you would pick me up" if she realizes I ain't picking her at her place.
I will not initiate contact tomorrow (Friday) . And will by no means pick her up at her place. She lives with her parents so I don't want to take the chance for her to introduce them to me. I'm not looking for a relationship nor gf.
However here is the "dilema" :
I will probably go out with my boys to this same place friday night. It's THE place currently for Friday nights and our go-to place. But I don't want to see her because my lord and savior Alpha Male Strategies (AMS) preaches to never see a bitch twice or more a week because that will lower her attraction to you given you are always available to her and by effect "over pursuing". (I also saw her Monday in our class but we did nothing after class like we did on Wednesday).
So I ask for advice,
Option 1: Do I go to the place with my boys and bump into her? If so how can I still come out as not that desperate to see her?
Op 2: If she texts me first Friday afternoon, respond that I'm going there with my boys but can see you later at night at one specific bar more towards 1am? Odds are she will be with her group of girlfriends and a couple orbiters.
Op3: Try to convince my boys to go to another place so I will have 0% chance of bumping into her?
Op4: Don't go out and have a rest day?
My beta self first thought, shit you HAVE to see her again this friday to try and escalate and fuck her. Then my RP kicked in and thought, helll noooo. If you see her so soon and on her terms she will have the winning hand and you will not get to fuck her until she gets in a relationship with you or expects one.
PD: My parents are out of town the next weekend so I was thinking of asking her out next Friday and asking her if she wants to come back to my place and tell her my parents aren't home. If she says no then I'll next her. Thing is if I see her this Friday she might lower her interest and not fuck me next Friday when I'm home alone. It will be hard logistically to fuck this weekend unless it's in my car but that would be a gamble bacause of the cops and being a small car lol.
Thanks in advance for the help bros!
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