Just got into a new social circle and been flirting with a girl all night. Weve flirted a few times back and forth in the past, and i even command her around (she submits to me).

Anyways i made a mistake and asked her out in front of her friends, who know she has a boyfriend. Ok im not that dumb, but they were around the corner, within earshot of the convo but not necessarily out in the open. She then hit me with the "I have a boyfriend" which caught me by surprise, i feel that she was genuinely down for the dick but i asked at a bad time.

Did I trigger her ASD? I feel that if i asked her in private she would have gave it to me. When i left the house gathering, she followed me out and left at the same time, perhaps wanting me to ask her again in private? she initiated convo as i was leaving by saying "bye" possibly to ask again, but maybe thats just hopeful thinking.