I've come pretty far in the last two years, from being a shy, introverted, chubby guy to losing 10 kilos and coming out of my shell while also realizing that one of my 'BFFs' wasn't very healthy for me. I've started lifting and am trying my best to find out what my mission is but I don't know where to go next. I don't have a friend group, not because I can't make friends but because I can't find people to make friends with. I'm not lonely, I do have a group of kids I grew up with, and we hang out, have fun but I know that people are the average of the five people they spend most of their time with, and those guys aren't too good, or ambitious in any sense of the word. The people I like, and wanna be friends with have already become tight and when I do hang with them on occasion, I feel grossly out of place. So what I'm asking is, how do I make friends when people are already going on road trips and hanging out on a daily basis while I am just an outsider ?