I am currently 30 years old but I look very young for my age. I live in a college town tho so I'm constantly around younger talent. Last Thursday I unknowingly took out a 19 year old and while we were laughing when we learned our age difference, it definitely was a little strange. That's my fault to blame I think tho. should I have just rolled with it and been like yeah I know you're only 19 but your hot as fuck, I'ma try to slide in there??!? I probably should have, just to see what happened! She definitely had a good time with me.

Should I just make it known to said younger girls that I don't have an issue with dating younger girls, that I actually prefer them? (19 is a little young to me but I love love love to date like 22-24 year olds. I'm currently 30 but I plan to stay single and Chase money/my career until I'm solidly in my 40s -- 10-15 more years --but would loooove to collect many more 23 y/o hotties, plates, girlfriends in my repertoire during that time. So I need to figure out how to reframe this in my head so that it feels "normal" to date a younger girl, and not weird, which mainstream society tries to push in us)

Is it just about frame? How do you play it cool when your in your 30s and the girl is still a young bunny?

I haven't really yet, but there have been times I considered saying I'm just younger than I am. A lot of times the girls think I'm 24-25 anyway, and I could just shrug it off and roll with it for a bit. Or say I'm still in college or something.

It has happened more than a few times for me that I've approached/phone # collected/gone out with a girl that is substantially younger than me, and while I know this is "normal" in red pill theory, and I really actually quite like it, there is still that old part of me that I need to Reframe, the old part of me that thinks it's a little weird or a little creepy or whatever it is to date or fuck a girl 8-9-10+ years your junior. it could be because my university is a college town and it's a huge "State" University so I think a lot of times the girls want to know exactly how old you are, what year in college you are, what rank you are, who you are, etc because social standing is a big deal for college kids and who a girl dates/fucks signals what her social standing is. and at the same time, now that I'm out of college, yet the fact that I'm still meeting so many college student girls, it's making me think about temporarily blending the truth a little bit. That's probably pretty fucked tho.

could you guys tell me some examples of your experiences dating college girls? How you phrase things? How you frame the fact that you're older and NOT in college? What if the girl is not 21 yet? I know I'm overthinking this, but I really appreciate any insight. if you do end up dating a younger girl, do you try to avoid her friend? How do you play it off cool when her friends find out about her and the "older guy?"

Thanks!!