6 months in with lady 2 years older than me. Probably have slightly higher SMV than her but being a decent looking women in her 50's is hard to come by so who knows. Getting along great, good push-pull but an issue has popped up that appears to be putting her on the fence with moving forward with things. What is the best way to bring her off the fence? My thought is going pure push as we really connect and talk often, or just laying out to her, here are my needs, her is where I stand, what's holding you up. Feel push is just a game at our age, and the last time I told her where I stand she responded positively. Thoughts?