Many redpillers will try and convince you to not marry or to see women as evil. Many of these men are bitter that life is not fair (where fair is reality catering to them). Many have had bad experiences in life or are discouraged and to support their quitter delusional perspective, they try and convince you to give up too. They are like crabs in a bucket, trying to ruin your life too, so they can have an army of butthurt men circle jerking each other in "support."

Dating, marriage, children, women, love, all these things are like walking into ancient mysterious temple guarded by traps and snake pits. Don't walk into it unless you are prepared as much as possible. But don't avoid it completely because it could be dangerous. You'll never be fully prepared, you could waste your whole life trying to prevent failure, that's why at some point you just have to jump in. Courage, and the call to adventure.

There are traps everywhere: Men telling you not to marry at all. Women creating a false alpha image and convincing you to strive for it. Many women know what an alpha is, you can learn it from this false image they try and get you to be, but understand it is designed in the end for them to be in control. A true alpha makes his own damn decisions! A woman will try to inject "feelings" into you. You don't "find" your feelings through them, that shit is injected into you, it's an imposter, it's another way they control you, through "emotional manipulation" or to shit test you.

Also, men are your competition in the sexual marketplace.. We only work together when it benefits the individual. But many men who convince you to join the army of women haters are removing you from the sexual marketplace on purpose. They are sneaky weasels, spouting all the RP things, while behind your back, being the white knight to the girl you reject on principle, getting laid.

Think for yourself. Identify allies, foes, enemies, and friends. These positions change constantly. People have their own agenda, they are looking out for themselves, first. There are wolves circling everywhere, their red eyes shining in the dark, salivating, growling, waiting for the moment to attack, all hidden behind social graces. You play the game and work with these people only so you can get you fill of meat too. Use your brain. Play the game smartly. Create an ideal in your mind of what you want, what you want in a relationship, career, ect. and understand that the world can't have that too, so they do everything they can to prevent you from having it, even your own family might be withholding the tools of success, at least until you submit to their version where they are in control. Think! Make your own damn decisions.