I don’t burn with desire for my wife. Or even have much desire generally. Been together almost 3 years. I was in a relationship for almost a decade from the time I was 17. I was always burning with desire. literally would see her out of the shower and I would be ready to go at a moments notice. Literally feeling it in my nuts that I wanted to fuck her so badly. And probably for that reason she owned me and the relationship eventually failed. After some soul searching and banging everything in site I’m married and was at first the same way but it’s slowly gone away. Everything in the relationship is great except for this. Is this normal. Is this the way it goes when you are the prize in the relationship.